1. "You lose yourself trying to hold on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you."
    — OCC (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
  3. doloresjaneumbridge:

    Some snaps from my Harry Potter Reread - Part 1 [Part 2]

    (via wrestlewithmyyouth)

  4. theartoftransliness:



    How to make your very own I Don’t Suck file:

    It can be general or specific—A lot of my clients make general files with notes from loved ones or former students/clients/bosses of theirs or other supports. Or magazine clippings that remind them of goals or qualities they have. I am currently making one that is therapy related as a way to transition from my most recent job and prepare for my move abroad. It has notes from clients, supervisees and evaluations.

    What you need: It can be as low maintenance as a file folder stuffed with notes or as high maintenance as a well-crafted scrapbook. What’s important is that you have a place to go when you need a pick-me-up.

    You can gather things to build it—don’t have what you’re looking for? Start gathering!

    • If you have a friend or family member you trust to be supportive of you, see if they’d be willing to write you a note about what they like about you.
    • Next time you’re looking at a magazine or reading a blog and see something that resonates with you—save it for your file. Truth resonates, and you can’t recognize something that you don’t have, so if there is something you read or see that you admire and relate to, there’s something of you that’s in it.
    • Write yourself some affirmations when you’re feeling good—make your own or use song lyrics or quotes.

    -latest After Trauma post

    I feel like I definitely need one of these…

    This is an excellent idea for coping with dysphoria as well. Surround yourself with affirmations. Remind yourself that you are amazing and worthy of love.


  5. hopel3ssly:


    Come Together // The Beatles (Arctic Monkeys Cover) 

    this is so fucking incredible, woah

    (Source: kanyeworkoutplans, via giraffes5ever)


  6. musicstomyears:

    Sia - Chandelier

    But I’m holding on for dear life,
    Won’t look down, won’t open my eyes

    (via softvulgarities)

  7. (Source: indie-vid-ual, via thai-ng)

  10. nerd-in-a-tiara:



    Barack Obama has attained a level of sassiness one can only dream of.

    Holy shit it’s real.

    Who runs Obama’s social media because I want to be their best friend. 

    (via cfriednroy)